Monday, May 25, 2009

wedding preps update II

even though i always say that i dont want to think about the preps .. malas nak pikir and all.. but obviously my dreams didnt confirm that. past this week, all i colud dream about was anything related to the wedding. sigh. i dont even know what i've been stressed about. or am i in denial that i AM worrying about EVRYTHING. but my repression self-defence mechanism fails to ignore whatever i've been trying to avoid. i dont know about other brides-to-be. do they stressed out as much as i am? or am i just too loud about it? well.. accepting that this is how plain-jane is 'piloted', i feel like.. its ok to do this. whatever la. i hope tomorrow is the BIG day so that i dont have to go through another stressful days. btw, what is that i'm so stress about???

5 comments:

elyna griffin said...

dear, it is normal to be so under pressure at this phase. it is written that way. just take a deep breath and do one thing at a time.

i remember i had a really hard time figuring the whole things. and it got harder a week before the big day. and my advice is just be calm, do everything according to your plan and insyaAllah when we set our intention right things will just fall into place :)

good luck sweetie.
love you!

plain_jane said...

you got the point..
at this moment things are like floating pieces waiting for the right time to fit into their places..

tq dear.. i keep that in mind.

aifaa said...

hey love,
am not in the position to give wedding preps advices here, :)
but i just want to say..this is a beautiful once-in-a-lifetime experience,it might not turn out perfect (it never does) but at least u enjoyed every bit of it.

*just like a partner, he may not be perfect, but u know how happy he makes u feel. :)
and that's whats important.

so,don't stress out too much ok.
miss you heaps!

plain_jane said...

aifaa,
absolutely. both of u r right. anticipation kills me u know. i just hope everything to go on well.

miss u much.. xoxo

cerpelai said...

Hahaha..
Setuju dengan Elyna Griffin.. (cam Harry Porter pulak.. griffin door)
Edehh..!!

Naluri seseorang yang mengalami buat pertama kali memang sentiasa berdebar.. Kalo rilek je tu maknanya beliau bukan dari planet bumi..

Monday, May 25, 2009

wedding preps update II

even though i always say that i dont want to think about the preps .. malas nak pikir and all.. but obviously my dreams didnt confirm that. past this week, all i colud dream about was anything related to the wedding. sigh. i dont even know what i've been stressed about. or am i in denial that i AM worrying about EVRYTHING. but my repression self-defence mechanism fails to ignore whatever i've been trying to avoid. i dont know about other brides-to-be. do they stressed out as much as i am? or am i just too loud about it? well.. accepting that this is how plain-jane is 'piloted', i feel like.. its ok to do this. whatever la. i hope tomorrow is the BIG day so that i dont have to go through another stressful days. btw, what is that i'm so stress about???

5 comments:

elyna griffin said...

dear, it is normal to be so under pressure at this phase. it is written that way. just take a deep breath and do one thing at a time.

i remember i had a really hard time figuring the whole things. and it got harder a week before the big day. and my advice is just be calm, do everything according to your plan and insyaAllah when we set our intention right things will just fall into place :)

good luck sweetie.
love you!

plain_jane said...

you got the point..
at this moment things are like floating pieces waiting for the right time to fit into their places..

tq dear.. i keep that in mind.

aifaa said...

hey love,
am not in the position to give wedding preps advices here, :)
but i just want to say..this is a beautiful once-in-a-lifetime experience,it might not turn out perfect (it never does) but at least u enjoyed every bit of it.

*just like a partner, he may not be perfect, but u know how happy he makes u feel. :)
and that's whats important.

so,don't stress out too much ok.
miss you heaps!

plain_jane said...

aifaa,
absolutely. both of u r right. anticipation kills me u know. i just hope everything to go on well.

miss u much.. xoxo

cerpelai said...

Hahaha..
Setuju dengan Elyna Griffin.. (cam Harry Porter pulak.. griffin door)
Edehh..!!

Naluri seseorang yang mengalami buat pertama kali memang sentiasa berdebar.. Kalo rilek je tu maknanya beliau bukan dari planet bumi..