Monday, August 04, 2008

people who are hurt will hurt

so it says... i was watching a program on tv.. Oprah maybe.. i couldn't remember.. it was something about how people who was living life in hell manage to survive and get better life.. i am more interested in a quote said by the guest "people who hurt hurt" simply mean people who are hurt might or will hurt others. its true.. people who've been hurt and abused physically and mentally will do the same to other people. and the 'other people' who are hurt will hurt other people and this other people will hurt other and it goes on like a curse. but hurting people doesn't always satisfy the 'hurter'. sometimes unconsciously they might hurt people they dear and love the most and in other way, they are hurt themselves. again. what goes around comes around. ...

3 comments:

miss pumpkin (reen) said...

yes dear, i agree with d saying. it's like a continuous curse. ppl merely do it 4 revenge and eventually end up with a more complicated matters which might create self-hatred. Hurm,,'what goes around comes around'...

hope 1 day, d curse will b gone & d vengeance will b 'swept away'...

aifaa said...

why such angry posts.. :)
anyways.i love ur blog template.

(",) anese said...

huhu...yup..that is true...but for me...whether i hurt people or only keep it in the heart..one fact remains...i will still hurt, and it does not heal...still does not heal..

Monday, August 04, 2008

people who are hurt will hurt

so it says... i was watching a program on tv.. Oprah maybe.. i couldn't remember.. it was something about how people who was living life in hell manage to survive and get better life.. i am more interested in a quote said by the guest "people who hurt hurt" simply mean people who are hurt might or will hurt others. its true.. people who've been hurt and abused physically and mentally will do the same to other people. and the 'other people' who are hurt will hurt other people and this other people will hurt other and it goes on like a curse. but hurting people doesn't always satisfy the 'hurter'. sometimes unconsciously they might hurt people they dear and love the most and in other way, they are hurt themselves. again. what goes around comes around. ...

3 comments:

miss pumpkin (reen) said...

yes dear, i agree with d saying. it's like a continuous curse. ppl merely do it 4 revenge and eventually end up with a more complicated matters which might create self-hatred. Hurm,,'what goes around comes around'...

hope 1 day, d curse will b gone & d vengeance will b 'swept away'...

aifaa said...

why such angry posts.. :)
anyways.i love ur blog template.

(",) anese said...

huhu...yup..that is true...but for me...whether i hurt people or only keep it in the heart..one fact remains...i will still hurt, and it does not heal...still does not heal..