Monday, March 02, 2009

supernova

i went for the wedding package hunt this evening. gosh! now i can already feel the stress of planning a wedding. i'm not planning for a big and glamorous wedding... all i want is just a simple, nice wedding but surely a memorable one.. and of course, i stick to a tight budget. trying to spend as little as possible. i know it sounds difficult but believe that there is always a way. i had this 20-minutes convesation with my friend who is also a bride-to-be real soon. i wish her luck and bunch of happiness :) love you lynn.. thanks for helping me out. well, i asked her about her preps and believe me. i sound like i am going to marry sooner than her. hehe. the wedding packages are really confusing. its not that i dont understand the package. but i just soo clouded by the purpose to spend soo much money for a day event. remember. i am trying hard to stick on a tight budget. (tu la.. duit x cukup lagi.. sebok nak kawen ;p *wink*) to make it short. 1. i want a beautiful photo. 2. in order to capture a pretty shot, i must have pelamin yang cantik and a great photographer. sounds like a big investment :( 3. pelamin yang cantik surely cost a lot of money 4. a great photographer surely will cost you more :( these are my concern. i have no worries about the food since i'll held my wedding ceremony at kampung so food will be prepared by the sedara mara. to double my list, lynn added a few more on my list ;) 5. canopy? (i cant squeeze all my guests in the small house. dad doesnt agree a wedding at the any-hall.) 6. meja makan beradab? (since i hire no caterer, this is going to be a bit challenging.) urghh.. i need to nap for a while..

13 comments:

miss pumpkin (reen) said...

dearie,
stay calm k. Wedding prep suppose to b a cherished moment that u'll exceptionally indulge in.

& i knoe that we definitely want everything to be superbly put in d right place. So, u shud hv a list with u & check d list thoroughly at least 2 times a week.

U don't hv to spend lots of money on 'meja beradab' dear. U can use ordinary table but with fine decorated 'material' which u can do on ur own. & maybe u shud prepare a contingency sum as an advance preparation. Mcm flowers, xyah pilih mahal2 sgt. U can choose lily or ordinary carnation instead.

Nnt i'll pass u a list which might b helpful. I'm myself not that well-0rganized hehe. Mesti rse seram2 sjuk & thrill kan. Besnye. Hope i can do sumthing to help u out.nthing, just giv me a buzz.

Don't stress urself out k. One thing at a time & eventually u'll find out everything is done.MUUUUahx.

plain_jane said...

oh reen..

thank you dear.. i really appreciate that. i shamelessly admit that i'm really nervous bout the ceremony. up till now.. nothing is done yet. oh my...

p/s: cant wait for the check list ;)

miss pumpkin (reen) said...

jap ek. rasenye hari tu ade post utk wedding check list. I'll try to check again & giv a brief one instead sbb mine was so long. I'm pretty sure u've done ur best kan mek jennie.

One tip, jgn gune sumer duit utk wedding prep. Simpan gak lam 20-30% utk after wedding nye savings. Lpas siap mjlis, sbenanye lg bnyk duit nak pakai. hehe. Giv me ur email add k.

plain_jane said...

owh. thank you again dear. i bet you know better than me. u've been there, haven't you. i will really take that matter seriously.

muahsss..

xoxo

elyna griffin said...
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elyna griffin said...

hey babe, i hope i did not scare you.well if u realise i still have heaps of things to go through hehe

it must be easy to say things now because it's actually not happening just yet hehe but perhaps like i mentioned before, a lot of attentions should be devoted for photography, planning the flow of the function, food, maintaining lovely ambience and make up!

i believe everything has to start with love for the mission is to celebrate love! :)

Ms B said...

ah, the stress of the bride-to-be. *smiles* it takes a lot of will power to stick to the original budget. On another note, having lived here for close to 5 years made me realised the lesser stress for my friends here to plan their wedding.

G luck Jane! *winks*

plain_jane said...

lynn,

thanks a lot babe.. thanks for sharing all the website addresses..

i've arrange two meetings with the photographers and hopefully i love their work.

p/s : REMEMBER: No 'loving-hand' *lol*

plain_jane said...

ms B,
sticking to the original budget is very challenging indeed. it's equal to stopping yourself from indulging a cup of mocha perhaps *wink* ;)

i sometimes losing the grip but so far i think i'm doing well.. :)

lets just hope i'll do well to the end.. *praying hard*

nhh_318 said...

jane, kalau la sabah tu dekat, aku dah volunteer jadi ko nyer photographer....aku kan tere bab2 ngambik gambar ni....
aiseh...
betul cakap kawan ko tu...kena ada ceklist...aku yg belum der c.a.l.o.n nak kawin ni pun dah der ceklist siap beserta bajet sekali....hihihihi....tapi folder tu corrupt...kalau x blh share ngn ko....take care...
take fun on it....pray for your happiness and safety my dear fren.

plain_jane said...

meh la sini wei.. hehe..

aku ade gak checklist tp dalam hati jeee.. tu yg susah nk tick.. hehe..

tq for the prayer.. same goes to you!

miss noure said...

hai jane.it's me dayah (fren to hasni,pah,...).juz found ur blog..hehe..congrates to u!

daniadanis said...

jane..good luck!!!

create your best wedding album keh..an album that forever tells you how beautiful and memorable day u'v had in ur life..

Monday, March 02, 2009

supernova

i went for the wedding package hunt this evening. gosh! now i can already feel the stress of planning a wedding. i'm not planning for a big and glamorous wedding... all i want is just a simple, nice wedding but surely a memorable one.. and of course, i stick to a tight budget. trying to spend as little as possible. i know it sounds difficult but believe that there is always a way. i had this 20-minutes convesation with my friend who is also a bride-to-be real soon. i wish her luck and bunch of happiness :) love you lynn.. thanks for helping me out. well, i asked her about her preps and believe me. i sound like i am going to marry sooner than her. hehe. the wedding packages are really confusing. its not that i dont understand the package. but i just soo clouded by the purpose to spend soo much money for a day event. remember. i am trying hard to stick on a tight budget. (tu la.. duit x cukup lagi.. sebok nak kawen ;p *wink*) to make it short. 1. i want a beautiful photo. 2. in order to capture a pretty shot, i must have pelamin yang cantik and a great photographer. sounds like a big investment :( 3. pelamin yang cantik surely cost a lot of money 4. a great photographer surely will cost you more :( these are my concern. i have no worries about the food since i'll held my wedding ceremony at kampung so food will be prepared by the sedara mara. to double my list, lynn added a few more on my list ;) 5. canopy? (i cant squeeze all my guests in the small house. dad doesnt agree a wedding at the any-hall.) 6. meja makan beradab? (since i hire no caterer, this is going to be a bit challenging.) urghh.. i need to nap for a while..

13 comments:

miss pumpkin (reen) said...

dearie,
stay calm k. Wedding prep suppose to b a cherished moment that u'll exceptionally indulge in.

& i knoe that we definitely want everything to be superbly put in d right place. So, u shud hv a list with u & check d list thoroughly at least 2 times a week.

U don't hv to spend lots of money on 'meja beradab' dear. U can use ordinary table but with fine decorated 'material' which u can do on ur own. & maybe u shud prepare a contingency sum as an advance preparation. Mcm flowers, xyah pilih mahal2 sgt. U can choose lily or ordinary carnation instead.

Nnt i'll pass u a list which might b helpful. I'm myself not that well-0rganized hehe. Mesti rse seram2 sjuk & thrill kan. Besnye. Hope i can do sumthing to help u out.nthing, just giv me a buzz.

Don't stress urself out k. One thing at a time & eventually u'll find out everything is done.MUUUUahx.

plain_jane said...

oh reen..

thank you dear.. i really appreciate that. i shamelessly admit that i'm really nervous bout the ceremony. up till now.. nothing is done yet. oh my...

p/s: cant wait for the check list ;)

miss pumpkin (reen) said...

jap ek. rasenye hari tu ade post utk wedding check list. I'll try to check again & giv a brief one instead sbb mine was so long. I'm pretty sure u've done ur best kan mek jennie.

One tip, jgn gune sumer duit utk wedding prep. Simpan gak lam 20-30% utk after wedding nye savings. Lpas siap mjlis, sbenanye lg bnyk duit nak pakai. hehe. Giv me ur email add k.

plain_jane said...

owh. thank you again dear. i bet you know better than me. u've been there, haven't you. i will really take that matter seriously.

muahsss..

xoxo

elyna griffin said...
This comment has been removed by the author.
elyna griffin said...

hey babe, i hope i did not scare you.well if u realise i still have heaps of things to go through hehe

it must be easy to say things now because it's actually not happening just yet hehe but perhaps like i mentioned before, a lot of attentions should be devoted for photography, planning the flow of the function, food, maintaining lovely ambience and make up!

i believe everything has to start with love for the mission is to celebrate love! :)

Ms B said...

ah, the stress of the bride-to-be. *smiles* it takes a lot of will power to stick to the original budget. On another note, having lived here for close to 5 years made me realised the lesser stress for my friends here to plan their wedding.

G luck Jane! *winks*

plain_jane said...

lynn,

thanks a lot babe.. thanks for sharing all the website addresses..

i've arrange two meetings with the photographers and hopefully i love their work.

p/s : REMEMBER: No 'loving-hand' *lol*

plain_jane said...

ms B,
sticking to the original budget is very challenging indeed. it's equal to stopping yourself from indulging a cup of mocha perhaps *wink* ;)

i sometimes losing the grip but so far i think i'm doing well.. :)

lets just hope i'll do well to the end.. *praying hard*

nhh_318 said...

jane, kalau la sabah tu dekat, aku dah volunteer jadi ko nyer photographer....aku kan tere bab2 ngambik gambar ni....
aiseh...
betul cakap kawan ko tu...kena ada ceklist...aku yg belum der c.a.l.o.n nak kawin ni pun dah der ceklist siap beserta bajet sekali....hihihihi....tapi folder tu corrupt...kalau x blh share ngn ko....take care...
take fun on it....pray for your happiness and safety my dear fren.

plain_jane said...

meh la sini wei.. hehe..

aku ade gak checklist tp dalam hati jeee.. tu yg susah nk tick.. hehe..

tq for the prayer.. same goes to you!

miss noure said...

hai jane.it's me dayah (fren to hasni,pah,...).juz found ur blog..hehe..congrates to u!

daniadanis said...

jane..good luck!!!

create your best wedding album keh..an album that forever tells you how beautiful and memorable day u'v had in ur life..